It is not so. Ustadha Zaynab Ansaris advice is to err on the side of Islamic manners and limit unnecessary interaction. Al-Khaadimi (a Muslim scholar) said: "Talking to non-Mahram young women is unlawful as it can lead to temptation. Please keep us in your duas! verse and the following verses in Surah Al-Qasas show the conversation that Musa had with the two young women regarding feeding water to the animals. Answer: Certain things that one can perform include: fasting, not eating too much food, refraining from eating certain foods that increase the sexual desire, and having those that lower the sexual passion. Adams share of zina has been decreed for him, which he will inevitably get. haraam and comes under the heading of the zina of the tongue and ears, of which clearly mentioned in the Quran, and not to reveal their adornment except to their husbands, or their fathers, or their husbands fathers, or their sons, or their husbands sons, or their brothers or their brothers sons, or their sisters sons. Islamic Reflections (abbreviated IR), is a blog turned multifaceted Islamic enterprise for believers of all ages. B. Therefore: The conversations that are carried out with the intention of making others fall into sin (lustful conversations), such as explaining or describing sexual acts and scenes, are haram. Answer: In the name of Allah, Most Compassionate, Most Merciful. The conversation or correspondence must be halted immediately if the heart starts to stir with feelings of desire. al-Muattal al-Sulami al-Dhakwaani was behind the army and had set out at did not hear any word from him apart from his saying Inna Lillaahi own family members who are ignorant of this would offer handshakes and we stand replied to them. ( if he wants to marry they he should ask her guardian for her hand. KLT, For a non-Mahram man and woman to be in a secluded place in which no one else is present, and also no one else can enter, is haram - whether they are busy in the remembrance of Allah; talking; sleeping or awake; and their Salat in that place as well is not valid. appropriate eye contact. They should not let their voices be soft, or use soft and gentle expressions. How many a times has it happened that they shake each others hands or even kiss each other! For example, if in a gathering, women are not observing complete (or proper) hijab; or they have any zinat on; or there is haram bodily contact taking place between the men and women, then this type of mixing becomes haram. 1- That it is not possible to speak to her through one of her mahrams or through a woman who is his mahram. do not speak in lowered tones (with a sweet voice) lest he in whose heart is a disease of lust should be moved with desire. Quran. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and his Companions talked to non-mahram (person to whom marriage is permissible) women and Muslim men used to go to the Prophet's wives and . Answer: It is not a problem if: it is not the voice of a specific woman whom he knows and this causes her degradation or dishonor; and this action of imitation does not stimulate him and it is not something vain and futile, and the same applies the other way around (a woman imitating the voice of a man). I try to be the best obedient loving zawja i possibly could, but i look at wat he is doing is disrespectful towards me his wife and against islam .just yesterday there was this girl with her body naked and in front of me he look at the picture n . And when he came to the well of Madyan, he found there a crowd of people watering [their flocks], and he found aside from them two women driving back [their flocks]. What is our responsibility in this regard? uses to open the door to haraam attraction between the sexes. IR was established in May 2016. However, if ejaculation takes place, then it will be counted as masturbation, and this (masturbation) is haram. Simply observe your hijab, be pleasant, and don't engage in aimless conversation. anyone else. For example, there is a situation in which he can ask something from a man, but instead, he asks a non-Mahram woman; sometimes his conversation with non-Mahram women is prolonged so as to be able to talk with them more; going to places of amusement and on vacations with non-Mahram women is more attracting to him; if there is a place where there are non-Mahram women, he desires to be there more than other places; and when guests come over, he tries to talk and socialize more with the non-Mahram women than the men. non-mahram women may occur because of a need or it may occur needlessly. If you live in the West, chances are you will have to interact with non-mahram men quite frequently, particularly if you go to school or have a job. the seriousness of the situation in which he found himself. GKLMS, 183 Rule: It is Makruh for women to speak to men if it is not necessary. For example a woman would not cover herself in front of her brother-in-law, and she would consider her brother-in-law as her actual brother, in the same way the brother-in-law also considers this woman as his actual sister. 172 Rule: Men are allowed to speak to non-Mahram women as long as the following two conditions are met: The speaking does not lead either one of them to commit a sin. AGKLMS, 186 Question: Is a woman allowed to speak to a non-Mahram man who wants to talk with her in a lustful manner? website there is a section devoted to some of the fatwas that have to do The woman does not make her voice soft and attractive. As for talking to her without need or when there is fear of temptation, then it is not permissible. Masturbation however, in every instance is haram; and the best way to make sure that the sexual desires are not the reason for committing a haram act is permanent or temporary marriage, which (also) has a lot of reward in it. AGKL, If someone touches something with the intention of lust, but does not ejaculate, then (his action) is not haram. disclosing or asking personal information like the whereabouts of the person, ABGKLMS. Flirtatious way of communication should communication with others by movements of the hand or face or by quoting In the morning he reached the place where I was and he saw We very well know that giving into the whisperings of Shaitaan will lead us to do haraam things, and anything that could lead a person to fall into haraam things is also haraam. T, 209 Rule: Any kind of touching with a part of the body, to an object or person with the intention of lust is haram (with the exception of ones spouse). BGMST, 200 Rule: Bodily contact that happens in busy places (such as markets, processions, Salat al-Jumuah, funerals, the Sanctuaries (haram) of the Aimmah (Peace be upon all of them), and the House of Allah (SWT) in an unintentional way between a non-Mahram man and woman is not a problem, with the condition that one does not go to these places with the purpose and intention of being touched. For a Muslim female to chat with a non-mahram male is not permissible, unless in circumstances that it is necessary like a: Doctor, business etc. In some Muslim communities, people consider that it is completely forbidden for a man to communicate with a non-mahram woman and vice versa. What is the ruling for non-Mahram men to hear such a thing? Maintain distance. Is talk he want. In any event, please see below for some conditions and guidelines. Prior to the engagement surely you've spoken to this brother with your . People falling into adultery, extramarital affairs, office romances, teen relationships and so on originate from intermixing with the opposite gender and engaging in socialization with them. (In the event that the man knows that he will not fall into a sin? If you must have a video call then you should be adequately covered according to the Shariah rules. 204 Question: If a woman fears that in the event that she goes into a taxi that has a non-Mahram man in it, she or the taxi driver will fall into sin, is it allowed for her to go into that taxi? AG, According to Ihtiyat Wajib, a man and woman who are non-Mahram, must not be alone in a secluded place where there is no one else and where no one else can enter; even if they are only reciting their Salat in that place, and in fact, there is also a problem with the Salat that is read there. This is a means that the Shaytaan Looking at, touching and covering oneself against non-mahram ones have . And speak in a befitting manner.. As long as these conditions are met, they are allowed to interact with each other. KL, If it leads to corruption, then it is not permitted; rather, most often, women reading (Quran) in the presence of men and men listening to such a thing leads to corruption and thus, it is not allowed. Enter the OTP you received in your Email Inbox. 176 Question: Is it allowed for a man to talk to a non-Mahram woman who wants to speak to him in a lustful manner? Furthermore, their girls and women do not observe the proper hijab and their hair also shows, and however much we advise them, it does not have any effect. But over time we both have grown interested in each other. GKLM, 178 Rule: If a man knows that by speaking to a non-Mahram woman he will fall into sin other than that of a sexual nature, then it is not allowed for him to speak to her. He likes to stay in the presence of non-Mahram women more so than anywhere else. T. Therefore: Eating something lustfully, looking at something or someone, touching or smelling anything or listening to any noise that of a person or anything else, saying a word to someone, even if it be with a child, and in summary, any action that is performed with the intention of lust, is haram. Avoiding You can avoid a handshake; moreover, people wouldnt want Enter valid first name and last name with at least one space. There should be no softening of the voice by either party. Secure few moments, everyday, to reflect upon the innumerable blessings of Allah and thank Him for bestowing them upon you. Talking to a non-Mahram woman is permissible when needed and when one is secure from temptation, but this should only be according to the need and without being in seclusion with her. Does chatting between the sexes on social media sites come under the heading of khulwah that is forbidden? You can ask your question on the website via this link: https://islamqa.info/en/ask, Password should contain small, capital letter and at least 8 characters long, Log in manner [al-Ahzaab 33:32]. ABGKLMST, If someone intentionally breaks his fast in the Month of Ramazan by masturbation then he must give the combined kaffarahs. Whoever knows that he is somewhat weak, and is afraid that he may fall into the traps of the Shaytan, has to refrain from such conversations , in order to save himself. Islam faces many false claims regarding communication between men and women who are not mahram (also referred to as mehram) to each other. better to avoid staring, and lowering the gaze, except after establishing How many people have been affected in this Also, is it allowed to print such books? the parties engaging in the conversation should maintain an ordinary tone, and dismiss the use of speech in a soft and gentle manner. There are a few etiquettes that need to be followed. []. "A person who is blessed with the ability to be grateful, shall never be deprived of barakah and increase in blessings." I hope that you can explain in full detail. Its not like we have ever talked about anything indecent, we talk in a well-respected manner, and he sometimes jokes around too. Whoever knows that he is somewhat weak, and is afraid that he may fall into the traps of the Shaytan, has to refrain from such conversations, in order to save himself. By Allah, we did not exchange a word and I silence in that situation out of good manners and politeness, and because of It fulfills its historic and civil role by keeping contemporary Muslim in touch with religious principles, clarifying the right way, removing doubts concerning religious and worldly . Be stern, but not harsh. Views : You treat him just as any other random Muhammad walking into the masjid. The 2 conditions are as follows: 1. JazakAllah sister, this is wonderful article, helped me with my school assignment. being alone with them out of necessity in the wilderness or elsewhere, as 210 Rule: Masturbation is haram and one must refrain from it. Normally, it is permissible to talk with members of the opposite sex. Is it allowed for a man to do something or wear a type of clothing in such a way so as to draw the attention of a non-Mahram woman? belong and verily unto Him is our return) when he recognized me, and I of the foot is walking. Speaking to non-mahram women may occur because of a need or it may occur needlessly. ABGKLMS, 197 Rule: Even though looking at the face and hands of a Muslim woman in hijab, and looking at that amount of the body of a non-Muslim woman which is normally kept open is not a problem, however touching them is still not allowed. al-Qayyim (may Allah have mercy on him) said: None of the You will need to follow the instructions in that message in order to gain full access to the site. Can I Speak to a Non-Mahram for Unnecessary Reasons? of which the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) spoke when the slander (al-ifk) that the hypocrites accused her of; in her adultery, etc.) If a needless conversation takes place between We, as Muslims, should be strong in our faith. The condition for him to talk to women for marriage are these.if not fulfilled then it is prohibited for him to talk to the or get to know them. If you are talking to a non-Mahram then I advise you not to do a video call because you must be in a state of purdah. Islamic gender etiquette is strict, yes, but it is strict for a reason. May Allah Most High grant you the best of this world and the next. Answer: This action is haram, and if one has certainty that semen has been discharged, then one must perform a Ghusl. conversation should pertain only to the topic discussed at hand without also shows good manners with non-mahram women, especially in the case of Thus, sometimes a woman will be so friendly to a non-Mahram man as if it is her brother. B. Both This hadeeth G. 191 Question: Is it allowed to read romance novels in which sexual issues are being discussed? We cannot talk to non-mahrams in the same way we do with mahrams. Jazakillahu khair for sharing it. position. above picture clearly illustrates the mahram relationships of a female. However, if there is no possibility of falling into corruption, then it is not a problem. Answer: If it leads to corruption, then it is not allowed. A woman It is possible that he did not speak to her; rather he spoke to himself or So i just needed some advice on this.. is talking to a non-mahram guy online wrong?.. there is a quick glance for the purpose of speaking, there is nothing wrong We feel that refusing handshakes may hurt the other Dar al-Ifta al Misriyyah is considered among the pioneering foundations for fatwa in the Islamic world.It has been the premier institute to represent Islam and the international flagship for Islamic legal research. Islam Q&A, She is confused about the answer to a question concerning women talking to men, You can ask your question on the website via this link: https://islamqa.info/en/ask, Password should contain small, capital letter and at least 8 characters long, Log in also be avoided. Please see: https://seekersguidance.org/answers/general-counsel/can-a-young-man-and-women-be-platonic-friends/and: https://seekersguidance.org/answers/general-counsel/chatting-online-to-a-cousin-im-attracted-to/And Allah knows best. When is it permissible to look at women in general? Walaikum Salaam wa Rahmath Allahi wa barkatahu.. Assalaam alaikum, I've very recently started talking to a brother with the intent for marriage InshaAllah, we spoke for two days on musmatch then communicate with the opposite gender. He made his camel kneel down and put his foot on its foreleg (to keep it Related. May Allah (SWT) guide them and acquaint them with the Laws of Islam. What is the ruling if it is done without the intention of lust? 187 Question: Is it allowed for women to recite in a chorus in the presence of non-Mahram men? There are many examples of this principle in the Shari`ah. Re: Talking to non-mahram. Therefore: It is haram for one to go to or pass by a place, sit or stand beside a non-Mahram in a taxi or bus, with the intention of wanting to make body contact with a non-Mahram, and thus it must be avoided. Answer: If it leads to corruption, then it is not allowed. B, Answer: If it is not in the category of Ghina and it is not stimulating, then it is not a problem. Looking at non-Mahrams From the Prophet (s): O Ali, the first glance is for you while the second is against you and not for you. Khalwah of course occurs when a male and a female are alone in person. to get sick owing to a handshake. For example: If a woman cooks very good food when guests come over, or cleans the house better with the intention that the non-Mahram men will think that she is a hard-working woman and will be impressed by her; or one gives a very good speech with the intention that others will look at him/her in a better light, or other things like this, then these are not haram. We are Speaking to So you may talk to them for example in the presence of a mahram, or inquire about them through a mahram intermediary such as their or your parents. The main goal of this site is to provide authentic Islamic knowledge and resources through visual and written content that allows the Muslim Ummah to enjoy reading quality content while gaining valuable pearls of wisdom. This The zina of the eyes is looking, the zina of the ears is listening, the zina Therefore: Instances such as wearing specific kinds of clothing with the aim of having non-Mahram women fall into sin, talking, looking, walking, having a lustful behavior with the aim of drawing the attention of non-Mahram women; driving or getting onto a motorbike in a certain way in front of a Non-Mahram, joking, working out (in fitness clubs) in a specific way in front of a non-Mahram so as to make them fall into sin; putting on a necklace, keeping the arms and chest open with the aim of drawing the attention of non-Mahram women, etc all of these and other such things are haram and one must refrain from performing them. 145275. Dushka Zapata Social introvert: let's hang out. GL, 217 Rule: The intermingling of non-Mahram men and women is makruh, except if it is between an old man and an old woman. He wants to talk to a woman before he proposes marriage to her. He didnt turn away stating Asking help from non-Mahram men for things that are not necessary; asking non-Mahram men questions while it is possible to ask a Mahram the same question; having discussions with men and putting ones self between a discussion; exposing ones talents or virtues to a non-Mahram and socializing with non-Mahram men more; having more of an affection to work in an environment in which there are non-Mahram men in summary, all examples such as these in which there is a probability of falling into sin, and interactions in such places which are commonly done with the intention of deriving (sexual) pleasure, can lead to being be haram, according to the Laws of Islam. You can't chill with him, talk on the phone with him, even go out in groups with this person. I have talked to other ppl..and he has talked to people too..and some say it's wrongand some say it's ok as long as our niyyat is good and we haven't done anything wrong. exposing oneself to temptation. AGKLT. Answered by Shaykh Irshaad Sedick Question For a year, I was getting the company https://seekersguidance.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/cell-phone-690192_1280.jpg, https://seekersguidance.org/svg/Logo/SG-Logo-Main.svg. 223 Question: Is it allowed for a woman do to something to draw the attention (eyes) of a non-Mahram man? topics. Rather, normally, when women are singing or reciting in the presence of men and men are listening to it, this leads to corruption, and thus, it is not allowed. Not with intention of enticing that man into doing something haraam. Avoiding the Question: Is it okay for a female to talk to a non-mahram male online, not work or school-related talks, just about everyday life, e.g. covered my face with my jilbab. Well a year from now one of my friends, a girl, had introduced me to one of her online brothers. There is no fear of falling into corruption. He has told me that he wants to marry me, but right now is too soon, i m only 16 and will be 17 in 2 months the situation is too hard to explainand i am really confused on what should be done..and what shouldnt. is ideal to end the conversation. Note: According to the Islamic etiquette, all actions that a person commits for showing off are discouraged and are not recommended to be performed. Indeed, Allah is acquainted with what they do. ABGKLMS. al-Bukhaari, 4141 and Muslim, 2770. Follow not the footsteps of Shaytan. [al-Nur 24:21]. 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Avoid https://seekersguidance.org/answers/general-counsel/can-a-young-man-and-women-be-platonic-friends/, https://seekersguidance.org/answers/general-counsel/chatting-online-to-a-cousin-im-attracted-to/. A validation e-mail has been sent to your e-mail address. Unchecked, these developments can have a devastating impact on young people, particularly if the relationship is broken off by one of the parties, or, in the worst-case scenario, a physical relationship happens outside of marriage. staring and always trying hard to lower the gaze as much as possible; if Answer: In both instances, it is not allowed. When speaking to each other, they do not have the intention of lust. ABGKMST. Maybe cough a few times, keeping your hands on your mouth. The 206 Rule: If a person knows that if by kissing someone else, whether it be a child or ones Mahram, he will fall into sin, then he must not kiss that person. This hadeeth also shows good manners with non-mahram women, especially in the case of being alone with them out of necessity in the wilderness or elsewhere, as Safwaan did when he made his camel kneel without speaking or asking questions. Note: Just as was mentioned concerning men, sometimes it is possible that women also become under the influence and tricks of the devil. Especially those women who are in more contact with non-Mahram men more than others, such as nurses, or those women who works in various businesses and companies, in sports and fitness clubs, etc must be extra cautious (when dealing with non-Mahram men). of the tongue is speaking, the zina of the hands is touching, and the zina GKLMST. Non-Mahram men and women walking in a common, crowded area such as corridors, small alleys, doors, gates, etc. that it is a part of your religious teaching. Tarh at-Tathreeb, 8/53 2. I woke up when I heard him ABGKLMS. (In the event that there is contact between the two from on top of the clothing)? Taking or giving keys, or any other small things. Tell the believing men to reduce [some] of their vision and guard their private parts. Concerning this matter, Allah says (interpretation of the meaning): O you who believe! Believers (interpretation of the meaning): then be not soft in speech, ABGKLT. questions. BGKLMS. 195 Question: We are living in a Western country and attending University there, and whenever we meet our female Professors or fellow students (female), we are compelled to shake their hands, and if we dont, then this will make the Muslim students look as if they have bad manners. The woman does not make her voice soft and attractive. 185 Rule: When a woman is speaking to a man, she must not make her voice pleasing and soft, such that if the person with whom she is talking to has a sickness in his heart, he will become attracted to her, even if she is talking to him about a general matter. Maashallaah empathetic poem with wonderful words that decorated . mahram, and it is haraam to do the same in the presence of a non-mahram. AGK, According to Ihtiyat (Wajib), the combined kaffarah must be given. End Therefore: The youth especially must refrain from showing off and things relating to the above examples. There is no fear of falling into corruption. conversation should be limited to only what is necessary and has to do with Decline the handshake directly. (may Allah have mercy on him) said: The phrase and I did not hear any word joking and laughing; that is not part of etiquette and dignity. Create an account, If you do not have an account, you can click the button below to create one, Create new account Women going (or passing by) a gathering or busy place where there are lots of non-Mahram men present. Kash-shaaf al-Qinaa' reads: "And if a man greets her; i.e. When we are in our workplaces or universities, refusing handshakes could gain a lot of attention. 179 Question: If one fears that by talking to a certain non-Mahram woman he will fall into sin, then is it allowed for him to talk to her? done needlessly and only for fun and enjoyment, then there is no doubt that them) and compare it with the way things are today. Allah, may He be exalted, says, addressing the Mothers of the physical characteristics such as height, age and so on. the young woman, she does not have to reply to him in order to avoid any kind of depravity. Answer: If it leads to corruption, then it is not allowed. We have been talking online for about a year now. A, According to Ihtiyat Mustahab, it is better that men do not hug non-Mahram girls who are 6 years of age or older, sit them on their knees, or kiss them. Unchecked, these developments can have a devastating impact on young people, particularly if the relationship is broken off by one of the parties, or, in the worst-case scenario, a physical relationship happens outside of marriage. 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